The Mysteries of Realisation(part2)

So, here is the first mysterious realisation.
The first mysterious realisation is “ATTACHMENT.” When did you found that you are so close to someone or you are attached to someone or you are in a particular relation with them? Well, it’s a sort of unconfined things, we can’t find them out. It’s so hard to know that we are attached to someone though it cherish us and this cherishment dramatically emphasise us. We don’t even realise it but it’s one of the reason because of which we start doing so many things which are not important in ideal conditions like judging, predicting, persecuting etc.
As our life is real, normal people often do these things but isn’t it wrong? Well, it’s not my first matter of concern, I will tell you about this later on.
We get attached without having the senses of attachments but life teaches us a lot and the first thing I understood was temporariness. Everything is temporary and this temporariness is essential to destroy us permanently and attachments are only the spices we put into life to increase its taste and other half is so known to everyone and if not, you will know it by yourself just give life some chances.
These spices destroy our life system, sometimes later and sometimes early. But we can’t live without these spices even with the knowledge that one day we will find these spices sour and dull. We can’t let them out, we can’t live without them, we don’t even add them sometimes but they appears and there are certain attachments we crave for. Even with the taste of our bitter experiences always we have some longings for attachments and relations.
Is it a problem to have the attachments?
My answer is “NO.” There is no problem in having attachments or in creating a new one. We can’t live like a monolith. We need certain attachments in life because they always add something, doesn’t matter what they add but in each case, you will learn but this learning is a realisation of something which brings you up in a whole different way. It has the power of making you an evil not for others but for yourself. Once you will get the realisation of the temporariness of attachments you will run away from it or you will run for it. It’s like the law of nature as I mentioned in my last blog “opposite attracts.” You don’t need to do anything for the attachments, our efforts are useless. Yes, you can try to get attached to things and maybe you will succeed in it but it will reach the doom’s day soon because forced attachments can’t be handled for a long time.
So, what we can do for it? “Nothing” is an appropriate answer but we can do one thing; appreciate. We can appreciate what is coming up to us and I know it’s theoretically nice and would be appreciated only in the books but we can try it for sure.
“There are things out of our fist,
ATTACHMENTS are important because,
Can you imagine your life without heart breaks and lovable twists?
They happen mysteriously,
They get emancipated mysteriously,
We are never prepared for aches life will give us.
If we will think about them a lot, at last, they will depress us.
So, better we just assume to be happy in every case,
Because law of nature says everything has an end,
One day, everyone will come across the situation to leave you,
And for sure, it doesn’t mean you become alone or to be numb you pretend.
Appreciate the mysteries of ATTACHMENTS and live your life accepting them,
Oh! Wait. Think once before getting an attachment if you really mean it or there are so many things in your life which the mysteries of realisation will fetch.”
Once you will realise these things you will alter your life for sure. You will stop being attached to things and people in general. Your attitude will become slightly cold-blooded or completely. You will start judging people and you know the worst part of judging? As being a human, we judge the unknowns on the knowledge of known. So, be careful about your judgements. Don’t be afraid about ATTACHMENTS. Just live in the moment and respect what you have. No matters, how cursed you get, you still have the worth. No matters, how life has crumbled you, how circumstances grounded you, after all the facts and drama, attachments still worth the same.
Think once.
Hope you have got my point and if you haven’t, you can ask me questions regarding the blog on Instagram (@udit.gour) or here in the comment section.

The Mysteries of Realisations

Hello People, it’s been a long time since I posted my last blog. “The Mysteries of Realisations” is a mystery of stranger’s life.

And it happened! It was not a poetry I wrote for someone who doesn’t even exist,
It was not a thought I got in the middle of my ways,
It wasn’t a philosophy I created or learned for myself,
It wasn’t the feeling I got for someone,
It wasn’t for someone I know,
It wasn’t like it was seeming. It was a mystery and better a mystery for the mysterious one where I am the mysterious one. I didn’t know that it will take me so high that I will forget the deepness but I didn’t know it either that it will make me fall and touch the profundity and yet it wasn’t core because as someone told me once “it is better to be on the surface.” It was a surface indeed but can you guess the deepness if you will catch the profundity on the surface?
The way it touched, hatred me, my every thought which was indeed for me was turning wrong, I lied for once then twice then I guess it became a hobby. Each time they asked or argued I simply lied and then they started getting it in the way it was seeming; again a wrong one. My mysteries were not enough that I made my thoughts more mysterious. I didn’t get it when it happened. Well, no one gets it when it happens so I was no different.
It was about the darkness I fought for.
It was about the sun I drowned for.
It was about the rays I tried to fetch and it was about the light; the love.
I tried, I tried it harder and harder. I don’t know what is wrong but I too have longings for light, the one people are making a mystery. I know you won’t get it and how will you get it is the biggest thing. I won’t tell you, and you will never ask me. See how amazing it is. There was a thought in my bio which says “you don’t know me but you’re about to” and it was there for quite a long time then there came the light, the light of socialisation and cherishing and being cherished so I changed it and it became “you don’t know me but you’re about to and once you will know me you will love too;” desperate indeed. But I knew and I know there are things I can bet you will love.
I laughed a lot when the realisation of life kissed me again. Moron was I. Things happens and it is really good to be socialised but it’s better to be in the dark because there are no longings and as the light rays get you the way to the source of life it starts hurting. I know offence and the better half you know and if you don’t, you will discover it by yourself because you can’t get it if it doesn’t happen to you. A great saying. But sometimes life teaches you a lot and a lot more than you can’t even think and it’s better to know but there comes my point “Realisation.”
The day you will realise the things, the day you will get knowledge about life, the day when you will see the real truth, it would be the last day of your life. And the real decay starts from the day you get acknowledged by the world. And the knowledge in some ways and better I can say in many ways outrages you, your kindness, your humanity, your attitude, your surrounding and the worse, it outrages your soul because everything comes from a soul and you start collecting the mistakes in your soul where the mistakes was there in the mystic world. And same I did but thanks to god I always have some courage hidden in the corners that always help me out from the lights of darkness. See, obsessed with my darkness. But I don’t love darkness neither I am used to it. I just have the realisation and as I said “realisation” it sucks. So, I changed my bio again with the realisation and it became “you don’t know me and you will never.” Because I am a stranger and there are things even mysterious to me and those are those I can’t write down here. And still, I am on the surface.

“With the realisation but with the courage too,
It’s all about the longings for that one you always try to find in cue,
It’s not about the darkness you live in,
It’s about the light you fetch, without burning your hands,
It’s not about getting cold blooded,
It’s about having the realisation of life and walking leaving the walls behind,
Because you are unstoppable and you can’t get fade.”

The more you will know the lesser you will live and if it’s so my doom’s day not so far (self-obsession)
With each and every realisation of life, you will find yourself nearer to the death because it’s the labyrinth of life and opposite attracts.

This is the first installment of the series “the mysteries of realisations.” The next blog will be published on next Saturday night. Till then, keep shining.

Sayat.me

My experience with SAYAT.ME

Hello, people. Stranger is here with a new experience of Sayat.me.

I think everyone reading this blog have used this app or right now using this application or website.

Firstly, I was in against of this app. Secondly, I avoided it. Thirdly, I laughed on those people who have used this app and-and fourthly, I took an experience of this app so that I can express it better.

So, what SAYAT.ME is? 

Sayat.me is a free service which enables you to gather sincere and honest feedback from people you know or give feedback to others. Create your personal feedback URL and spread it via Facebook and Twitter to your friends and colleagues so, that they can give you anonymous feedback. Haha, honest and sincere reviews annonymously, it sounds too weird. Do we really have honest and sincere people to give their honest reviews and if we have why we need them to review us anonymously?

An application or website which provides a platform for the people who want to say, deliver or express something but they fear of people, they afraid of what other will say, they are frightened of other’s judgment and anyone can use it to say the things they actually mean it but actually don’t mean it. There is a small area or error between both where these people belong to. 

They say, now you can find out what other people think about. Do we really need to think about what other people think? Yes, in some sort of. No, in the other remaining. Over dependency on the people changes with our position and situation in life or better I can say our need of people in life.

When I was seeing people who were using this I felt like why they need it. Why we need a platform to say something and that too anonymously. Like hell, now we need a platform to confess our things anonymously. The company got the neck of our generation; which is fear and lack of guts. 

And most of the people who used this app when got the reviews they took the screen shots of it and posted it on Instagram, facebook, snap chat and blah blah… asking everyone to message them and open their identities.

If they wanted to open their identity why they used SAYAT and made themselves anonymous for you??? Or you are the same student of every class who always be there on the crime scene and swears that “I will not tell anyone” and then go to the principal’s office and vomit the whole scenario?

What actually SAYAT.ME is providing?

If you are trying to be smart and thinking like dude everyone knows about SAYAT.ME, let me tell you one thing, it’s not the platform they are providing. They are actually making you bind in your comfort level and giving you the opportunity to say anything you want to say and you can say anything which you can’t say on the person’s face. It actually makes you a loser and coward and they are introducing so many.

So, the tagline of SAYAT.ME should be…” If you don’t have guts to say it on my face, do SAYAT.ME”

I haven’t posted a single review about any of the SAYAT users because I feel like a looser. Am I so wrong that I need to be anonymous to say the right thing? 

I don’t need to be a coward and hide my name before showing my feelings, telling my views and expressing my idea about something. Actually, we don’t need SAYAT but we do because we all are coward, we all are frightened of others and moreover, we are afraid of our thought, other’s judgment is a far cry.

So it was all about SAYAT.

Thanks for reading.

Now it’s time to give the answers of the comments or better I can say the SAYAT reviews, i.e. anonymous reviews. One of my friends adorned the answer box with abusing words and then asked me if I want more. Probably, it was their eagerness about how frequently I posted the SAYAT stories and if it was not and their personal feeling then dude thanks, I indeed appreciate you because words are like the mirror they reflect your personality and you don’t have one.

And a girl lost her temper after going through so many of my SAYAT stories. So, it’s humble sorry to you anonymous.
One called me his/her best friend and then asked me to f*ck off. Well, I don’t know you so how can I f*ck off.
The last one is for my EX who thinks I left her. So, first of all, you can’t be anonymous to me. You can’t be hidden from somebody in whom a part of your memories lives in. Secondly, it doesn’t matter what I think or says because my words don’t matter to you.

And at last thanks to everyone who thinks or feel like I am a good person. Lots of love to all of you.

Thank

Don’t SAYAT.ME but say at me.

Yet I am confused

Hello, people. The stranger is here with a confused, a bit strange and a bit weird blog.
It started when I was in 6th. For the first time, I have made a science model.
Most of you guys judged me with my first sentence that how normal I am talking everyone could have done this. Yes, you all are right. There was a science model presentation for which my project didn’t get the appreciation either. I was supposed to be sad and I was. For a kid like me who rarely talk with people, it was quite unbearable but there was someone who was standing like a monolith. Who supported me through whole my journey. He was my dad. That day he told me one thing I remember the exact, it was, ‘we never fail son, we only win or get experience’. It was very deep thought for the kid studying in 6th standard. For the time, I managed to run through the time. The very next year again the competition held again my model was not selected but this time it was like normal for me to understand that there are so many people who stand above your life. Quite demotivating line but ok for the situation. Next year, again I created a model and as the last two years the thing I got was the failure but this I weren’t motivated nor demotivated, I just evolved myself that where the model is lacking. There is something which always leads me to the failure and what I found was shocking.
I failed every time because the thing I created was unique, it was enormous, complex for people and clearly not something mere. So, next time when I started working on a new project I tried to make it simple and as per the normal guidelines created by our respected freaking teachers but this time I was out from the competition because the category in which I was presenting the project was not the part of competition anymore. It took me four years to understand why I have got failed every time.
In 10th, finally, I got a chance to present my project from my school. In this attempt, I reached the maximum level of competition which was the national level science competition and secured the 2nd position there. I could be the first but there was an issue I can’t tell you right now.
If you are reached here, probably, you were thinking why this guy is spreading shit about his life. So, here I tell you my point. It took me 4 years and more to decide and clarify that I belong to the science stream. Science is my passion. I love to create, believe in practical. Yes, I do it today also. With average grades, I passed my 12th and opt for mechanical engineering.
In between those two years of life. I changed completely. A lot of stuff I have gone through. As a normal, I faced almost every situation sometimes softly sometimes hardly but it changed me again. It took me four years to select my loving stream and in 2years I got a new thing to be in. It was management and literature. I started taking part in and as managing body in events, curricular etc. I started reading novels. It was a new thing for me and I was enjoying it. As I reached the second stage I needed to decide for the next step. Which carrier do I choose? Should I prepare for GATE, CAT, GRE, GMAT, IES, etc. or should I do the thing I love the most? Again I needed to discriminate between two things management and literature.
Options always make your life simpler but in my case I want it to be précised and clear. I don’t like options but life always creates. Not everyone gets options in life. Not everyone gets an opportunity to choose what they want to do.
But it’s always difficult to choose between your priorities where you love two things the same.
And yet I am confused.

There are only few you remember the most

There are so many pages in a book but there are only few you remember the most….

Sometimes, the one you don’t need to.. 

and sometimes the one you want to tore, 

the one which you wetted while reading and the one which roasted your soul utmost…. 

Sometimes, the one you talk about happily but cry somewhere deep..

and the one you fought with or laugh on without any weep.


laugh on without any weep….

SEXISM

And after this post may be so many of you will going to unfollow me. A lot of women societies going to kill me with their feministic thoughts. But it will not stop me to deliver this because I want all of you to read this.

Today is international women’s day. Most of the TV channels are talking about the late stones made by women. The great Rani Lakshmi bai and other will be tuned for the whole week.

You have started getting so many messages praising girls and women. How they created stones and with each and every running day they make new mile stones. It’s really good to praise them and I believe in one thing that women are superior to men and I am the guy who always respects and I do it often without obliging to gender. 

Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE a hot woman, hot women, even better. But the attractive thing is their confidence, their intelligence, their spirit. Just as much as their physical appearance. I have so much admiration and respect for so many women that have achieved so many things that I do take it personally when I think that someone would look down on them, or be derogatory just because of their gender. But sometimes I think either I am wrong or the world because every time when I feel like women are superior people came with the slogans elucidating praises and celebrating them as awards, inspiring them and there is a lot but I know only few will read it fully. Then also I improvise my mind and tell him that they are on the losing side but how? After all, they are superior. They are talented, they are powerful, they do have opportunities and sometimes I feel like they have more opportunities! May be I am wrong. May be the people praising them at the level of eternity are also the part of the “casual sexism” without knowing them that they are. It is not about praising or improvising them. This thing really proves that we respect them. But it doesn’t say we do because the incidences like NIRBHAYA CASE and BENGALURU MOLESTATION CASE and there is a plenty list which shows that we don’t respect them. Here, I conclude, it was done by five and or four or in some cases 10 men, in every case, they were drunk and illiterate but there are thousands and millions of literate men live in our country no one cares about. These things are not about praising women or bitching them or judging them wrong or telling them about clothes and all. It is about how do we think and now as I came on think, first of all wish you a very blessed international women’s day. And now think for once if you know about any date of men’s day. I guess most of you will come with a “no” except few and those who Google it. This is sexism.

There is nothing casual about sexism. It often happens, I know it’s the mistake of illiterate people but those who call themselves a literate one are also the one who praise sexism. All I want to say is there is no difference in a son and a daughter and if there is nothing we should treat everyone equally. Don’t’ be the part of sexism.   

I write this article knowing it’s likely not everyone will agree, but I believe that sexism is in danger of becoming ’socially acceptable’ and it should not be!                                     

Udit Gour

Where MAGIC happens

Parachuting out of the ship, exhaling the mere;

Drowning in the profound ocean, debuting out of the abyss;

Growing to see the shine of sun rays, trying to fetch them in my small hands;

Trying to breathe in the yell, enjoying the frustration;

Leaving one surface to reach the next,

Sacrificing life for a reason, killing the other reasons to make that one possible;

In the water but thirsty, forcing myself out to fulfil the thirst;

Losing the paths, lost in waves, trying to sculpting new ways to reach the place where magic happens…

Laughing with each and every losing battle but not giving up to try, 

Sinking in the water of helpless ness and sometimes living out it dry;

Gushing on the surface fighting with giant boats,

Sometimes building a courage and sometimes killing discouraging thoughts;

Trying to leave vulnerable waves, making a thundering frantic wave, which will engross me in it and will take me to the surface of the island where magic happens…

With hope of getting successful,

Finding the mirth even when life is been dearth;

Sometimes lamming the truth and sometimes fighting with treacherous;

Roasting myself in the ocean of liars,

Collecting the ashes and turning them into the fire,

Drowsing by enigma, ecstatic for glimpses of ambition,

Believing in self, rogering with today, working for tomorrow, zoetic due to longings of future,

I will reach the place where magic happens…

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