The Mysteries of Realisations

Hello People, it’s been a long time since I posted my last blog. “The Mysteries of Realisations” is a mystery of stranger’s life.

And it happened! It was not a poetry I wrote for someone who doesn’t even exist,
It was not a thought I got in the middle of my ways,
It wasn’t a philosophy I created or learned for myself,
It wasn’t the feeling I got for someone,
It wasn’t for someone I know,
It wasn’t like it was seeming. It was a mystery and better a mystery for the mysterious one where I am the mysterious one. I didn’t know that it will take me so high that I will forget the deepness but I didn’t know it either that it will make me fall and touch the profundity and yet it wasn’t core because as someone told me once “it is better to be on the surface.” It was a surface indeed but can you guess the deepness if you will catch the profundity on the surface?
The way it touched, hatred me, my every thought which was indeed for me was turning wrong, I lied for once then twice then I guess it became a hobby. Each time they asked or argued I simply lied and then they started getting it in the way it was seeming; again a wrong one. My mysteries were not enough that I made my thoughts more mysterious. I didn’t get it when it happened. Well, no one gets it when it happens so I was no different.
It was about the darkness I fought for.
It was about the sun I drowned for.
It was about the rays I tried to fetch and it was about the light; the love.
I tried, I tried it harder and harder. I don’t know what is wrong but I too have longings for light, the one people are making a mystery. I know you won’t get it and how will you get it is the biggest thing. I won’t tell you, and you will never ask me. See how amazing it is. There was a thought in my bio which says “you don’t know me but you’re about to” and it was there for quite a long time then there came the light, the light of socialisation and cherishing and being cherished so I changed it and it became “you don’t know me but you’re about to and once you will know me you will love too;” desperate indeed. But I knew and I know there are things I can bet you will love.
I laughed a lot when the realisation of life kissed me again. Moron was I. Things happens and it is really good to be socialised but it’s better to be in the dark because there are no longings and as the light rays get you the way to the source of life it starts hurting. I know offence and the better half you know and if you don’t, you will discover it by yourself because you can’t get it if it doesn’t happen to you. A great saying. But sometimes life teaches you a lot and a lot more than you can’t even think and it’s better to know but there comes my point “Realisation.”
The day you will realise the things, the day you will get knowledge about life, the day when you will see the real truth, it would be the last day of your life. And the real decay starts from the day you get acknowledged by the world. And the knowledge in some ways and better I can say in many ways outrages you, your kindness, your humanity, your attitude, your surrounding and the worse, it outrages your soul because everything comes from a soul and you start collecting the mistakes in your soul where the mistakes was there in the mystic world. And same I did but thanks to god I always have some courage hidden in the corners that always help me out from the lights of darkness. See, obsessed with my darkness. But I don’t love darkness neither I am used to it. I just have the realisation and as I said “realisation” it sucks. So, I changed my bio again with the realisation and it became “you don’t know me and you will never.” Because I am a stranger and there are things even mysterious to me and those are those I can’t write down here. And still, I am on the surface.

“With the realisation but with the courage too,
It’s all about the longings for that one you always try to find in cue,
It’s not about the darkness you live in,
It’s about the light you fetch, without burning your hands,
It’s not about getting cold blooded,
It’s about having the realisation of life and walking leaving the walls behind,
Because you are unstoppable and you can’t get fade.”

The more you will know the lesser you will live and if it’s so my doom’s day not so far (self-obsession)
With each and every realisation of life, you will find yourself nearer to the death because it’s the labyrinth of life and opposite attracts.

This is the first installment of the series “the mysteries of realisations.” The next blog will be published on next Saturday night. Till then, keep shining.

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Sayat.me

My experience with SAYAT.ME

Hello, people. Stranger is here with a new experience of Sayat.me.

I think everyone reading this blog have used this app or right now using this application or website.

Firstly, I was in against of this app. Secondly, I avoided it. Thirdly, I laughed on those people who have used this app and-and fourthly, I took an experience of this app so that I can express it better.

So, what SAYAT.ME is? 

Sayat.me is a free service which enables you to gather sincere and honest feedback from people you know or give feedback to others. Create your personal feedback URL and spread it via Facebook and Twitter to your friends and colleagues so, that they can give you anonymous feedback. Haha, honest and sincere reviews annonymously, it sounds too weird. Do we really have honest and sincere people to give their honest reviews and if we have why we need them to review us anonymously?

An application or website which provides a platform for the people who want to say, deliver or express something but they fear of people, they afraid of what other will say, they are frightened of other’s judgment and anyone can use it to say the things they actually mean it but actually don’t mean it. There is a small area or error between both where these people belong to. 

They say, now you can find out what other people think about. Do we really need to think about what other people think? Yes, in some sort of. No, in the other remaining. Over dependency on the people changes with our position and situation in life or better I can say our need of people in life.

When I was seeing people who were using this I felt like why they need it. Why we need a platform to say something and that too anonymously. Like hell, now we need a platform to confess our things anonymously. The company got the neck of our generation; which is fear and lack of guts. 

And most of the people who used this app when got the reviews they took the screen shots of it and posted it on Instagram, facebook, snap chat and blah blah… asking everyone to message them and open their identities.

If they wanted to open their identity why they used SAYAT and made themselves anonymous for you??? Or you are the same student of every class who always be there on the crime scene and swears that “I will not tell anyone” and then go to the principal’s office and vomit the whole scenario?

What actually SAYAT.ME is providing?

If you are trying to be smart and thinking like dude everyone knows about SAYAT.ME, let me tell you one thing, it’s not the platform they are providing. They are actually making you bind in your comfort level and giving you the opportunity to say anything you want to say and you can say anything which you can’t say on the person’s face. It actually makes you a loser and coward and they are introducing so many.

So, the tagline of SAYAT.ME should be…” If you don’t have guts to say it on my face, do SAYAT.ME”

I haven’t posted a single review about any of the SAYAT users because I feel like a looser. Am I so wrong that I need to be anonymous to say the right thing? 

I don’t need to be a coward and hide my name before showing my feelings, telling my views and expressing my idea about something. Actually, we don’t need SAYAT but we do because we all are coward, we all are frightened of others and moreover, we are afraid of our thought, other’s judgment is a far cry.

So it was all about SAYAT.

Thanks for reading.

Now it’s time to give the answers of the comments or better I can say the SAYAT reviews, i.e. anonymous reviews. One of my friends adorned the answer box with abusing words and then asked me if I want more. Probably, it was their eagerness about how frequently I posted the SAYAT stories and if it was not and their personal feeling then dude thanks, I indeed appreciate you because words are like the mirror they reflect your personality and you don’t have one.

And a girl lost her temper after going through so many of my SAYAT stories. So, it’s humble sorry to you anonymous.
One called me his/her best friend and then asked me to f*ck off. Well, I don’t know you so how can I f*ck off.
The last one is for my EX who thinks I left her. So, first of all, you can’t be anonymous to me. You can’t be hidden from somebody in whom a part of your memories lives in. Secondly, it doesn’t matter what I think or says because my words don’t matter to you.

And at last thanks to everyone who thinks or feel like I am a good person. Lots of love to all of you.

Thank

Don’t SAYAT.ME but say at me.

SEXISM

And after this post may be so many of you will going to unfollow me. A lot of women societies going to kill me with their feministic thoughts. But it will not stop me to deliver this because I want all of you to read this.

Today is international women’s day. Most of the TV channels are talking about the late stones made by women. The great Rani Lakshmi bai and other will be tuned for the whole week.

You have started getting so many messages praising girls and women. How they created stones and with each and every running day they make new mile stones. It’s really good to praise them and I believe in one thing that women are superior to men and I am the guy who always respects and I do it often without obliging to gender. 

Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE a hot woman, hot women, even better. But the attractive thing is their confidence, their intelligence, their spirit. Just as much as their physical appearance. I have so much admiration and respect for so many women that have achieved so many things that I do take it personally when I think that someone would look down on them, or be derogatory just because of their gender. But sometimes I think either I am wrong or the world because every time when I feel like women are superior people came with the slogans elucidating praises and celebrating them as awards, inspiring them and there is a lot but I know only few will read it fully. Then also I improvise my mind and tell him that they are on the losing side but how? After all, they are superior. They are talented, they are powerful, they do have opportunities and sometimes I feel like they have more opportunities! May be I am wrong. May be the people praising them at the level of eternity are also the part of the “casual sexism” without knowing them that they are. It is not about praising or improvising them. This thing really proves that we respect them. But it doesn’t say we do because the incidences like NIRBHAYA CASE and BENGALURU MOLESTATION CASE and there is a plenty list which shows that we don’t respect them. Here, I conclude, it was done by five and or four or in some cases 10 men, in every case, they were drunk and illiterate but there are thousands and millions of literate men live in our country no one cares about. These things are not about praising women or bitching them or judging them wrong or telling them about clothes and all. It is about how do we think and now as I came on think, first of all wish you a very blessed international women’s day. And now think for once if you know about any date of men’s day. I guess most of you will come with a “no” except few and those who Google it. This is sexism.

There is nothing casual about sexism. It often happens, I know it’s the mistake of illiterate people but those who call themselves a literate one are also the one who praise sexism. All I want to say is there is no difference in a son and a daughter and if there is nothing we should treat everyone equally. Don’t’ be the part of sexism.   

I write this article knowing it’s likely not everyone will agree, but I believe that sexism is in danger of becoming ’socially acceptable’ and it should not be!                                     

Udit Gour

Now stories on Whatsapp

There was a time when people loved to make portraits willingly. They were used to pose for a quiet long time to get an image and adore them till the last breath and after that leaves it for their sons and grandsons. It was a time when people were patient. The people who believed in stuckness fo the life and the rituals. Nowadays, people like to change. Yes, it is good to change but they change they believe in temporariness of life. They don’t want anything for a long time. They believe in short term happiness. lives the life for moments without caring about the life.
Even the technology is providing us short term happiness, the captures, the shots, the pictures were for life to have a look on them when we get tired of life when we will be aged.
After Snapchat, Instagram, Hike, now Whatsapp also provides the feature of stories taking a new step for temporariness.

“from the life of portraits to one-day stories, somewhere the life became shorter, people impatient, accustomed to vacillate and high for evanescence.”

Valentine’s post

“I felt very sad when I was going through my diary and found nothing to post on Valentine. But the pages stormed deeply inside my head and burned themselves to come up with new ashes.”
And here is something which I found in those ashes..
” She had covetousness to touch the stars, He took her in between the fireflies “

Promise day

Promise have a bizarre ability to adorn your life not less than heaven and to ruin your life not less than hell. Sometimes we promise something that is abandon of our hands but we do, sometimes just to show loyalty, sometimes due to engrossment of love, people do it often, there are a lot of things we really couldn’t promise to anyone but we do. Just to ensure the future which is out of our hands. I am not saying to not to promise but commit only for the things you can handle and just try. Try to achieve them. Try to complete your promise. Promise yourself that you will work hard to complete your promise. Just work hard. At last, it doesn’t matter you get successful or not. But ensure one thing that you really work hard to achieve the things you promised. Here, I hope for your better future and I promise I will give my best to my write-ups, I will give my best in understanding people, I ensure that it will always be a 100% effort. I promise.
Happy promise day.